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Curious Couple,
Let's make your love and your desire come alive.
Show me your longing.
And I'll show you the depths of your love.
If you know you want to:​
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· Re-ignite your intimacy after years together...but find it hard to talk about sex or identify what you truly want
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· Prioritize your connection amidst the demands of parenting and life...but feel overwhelmed trying to balance it all
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· Learn to communicate and hold your different needs with respect and love...but end up in the same looping conversation
I will meet you where you are and guide you where you want to go.​
"Every session has been better than the last. Danielle makes us feel so comfortable, so understood and so safe. We trust her deeply with our relationship and our hearts. We already feel it has changed our lives with how we see ourselves, each other and our relationship."
- Alyssa and Alon
Initial Consultation
Not sure where to start? You’re not alone.​
​It’s common to feel unsure about where to begin, who to trust, or what path to take. Some couples aren’t even certain they want to start a process together, but they know something needs to change.
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I know how overwhelming this decision can feel, and how important it is to find the right person for you.
That’s why I offer a 75-minute single consultation session, which you can attend together or on your own. This is a space to share where you’re at, ask the tough questions, get a feel for how I work, and hear my honest assessment of your dynamic, along with potential paths forward.
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Message me to schedule this one-time consultation.
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​$375 USD value​ offered at a special price of $325 USD for new clients
Sex & Intimacy
Integrative Couples Coaching
2026 new client spaces are now open. A limited number of spots available online, in-person in Nosara, Costa Rica, or as a hybrid.
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These coaching pathways help couples deepen intimacy, strengthen emotional connection, and communicate more openly. We work with proven somatic and relational methodologies to soften patterns that block closeness and create new possibilities for sexual, emotional, spiritual and relational fulfillment.
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Guidance extends beyond our time together with personalized practices to help bring this growth into your everyday life.
3 paths to becoming deeply attuned lovers:
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Awakening Intimacy
3 month journey
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A focused journey designed to reconnect you as a couple, strengthen communication, and explore your intimacy and sexual connection.
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Includes:
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10 sessions (75 min)
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Personalized home practices ​​​
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Investment: $3,750 USD or 3 monthly payments of $1,280 USD
Deepening Desire
5 month journey
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A deeper container for rewiring relational patterns, cultivating heart intimacy, and awakening the depths of your erotic connection.
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Includes:
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18 sessions (75 min)
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Personalized home practices
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Investment: $6,750 USD or 5 monthly payments of $1,380 USD
Devoting to Love
7 month journey.
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​An extended journey for couples ready to embody their aliveness, intimacy, and shared purpose at a profound level, and to explore new ways of co-living life.​
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Includes:
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24 sessions (75 min)
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Personalized home practices
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Investment: $9,000 USD or 7 monthly payments of $1,325 USD
What is Sex & Intimacy Coaching?
ONLINE & IN PERSON in Nosara, Costa Rica
A safe, compassionate therapeutic coaching space designed to nurture your communication, emotional connection and sexual fulfillment​ in ways that are both practical and profound. Tailored to your unique needs and desires.
Common areas of focus:​​
· Communication and repair
· Erotic chemistry
· Emotional connection
· Sexual core desires
· Explore new dimensions of sex (kink, sacred)
· Shift negative cycles and patterns
· Bridge differences in intimate desire and style
· Love languages & attachment styles
· Explore relationship structures
· Enhance sexual chemistry and arousal
· Parenting preparation and support
· Co-creative living and business partnership
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My expertise:
· Sacred sexuality
· Differing sex/attachment styles and cultures
· Parenting and family life
· Re-designing and visioning a shared life
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My approach is rooted in over a decade of therapeutic training and clinical experience as a former couples therapist, an MA in somatic psychology, advanced training in emotionally focused couples therapy, blended with my expertise as a Somatica® sex & relationship coach and board-certified sexologist (ABS).
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Ready for a Deep Dive?
Private mini-retreats designed around you and what your intimacy is calling for right now. They range from three-hour sessions to multi-day experiences, offered online or in my studio in Nosara, Costa Rica.
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Immersions are ideal for couples who feel ready to nurture their bond within a dedicated container. They’re also a beautiful option for couples visiting Costa Rica who want a unique way to reconnect or experience this work before committing to a longer journey.
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Reach out directly to explore an immersion for your relationship and receive a customized price.
"The immersion itself was incredible for both of us. It was deeply calming for the nervous system, gentle, and surprisingly easy. It reminded us that there is so much love between us, and that it’s often just life, stress, and daily responsibilities that get in the way and cloud that connection.
One of the most beautiful parts of the experience was how safe it felt...my partners' eye contact, presence, and understanding of me grew immensely during the session, which was incredibly moving, especially after being together for 15 years."
This approach is for you if...
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You've built a meaningful partnership, you're a great team, but when it comes to emotional intimacy, spiritual connection or great sex, something feels missing. Desire may have faded, your bond takes the backseat to parenting and work, or your evolving sexuality feels out of sync with your partner.
You’ve done couples work, yet there’s still an unexplored layer of emotional and sexual connection that you're craving.
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You’re not alone — and you’re in the right place.​​​
As a mother of two in long-term partnership, I know how easily emotional and erotic connection can get buried beneath the pressures of everyday life as a couple.
It’s such a common struggle, yet one we don’t talk about enough...or receive support around.
This is what led me to this work. First as a couples therapist and later as a certified sex coach, I’ve supported hundreds of couples in moving through distance, stagnation, and disconnection to rebuild trust, revive desire, and co-create relationships that feel alive, resilient, and deeply authentic.
"Danielle has an exquisite sense of attunement and sensitivity, as well as deep and thorough theoretical grounding. She has journeyed far and wide and knows the material from the inside out, the felt sense. This in my mind, distinguishes her work and practice. She is authentic and generous with her being.
Anyone who chooses to go on a journey with her is bound to benefit beyond measure."
— Melanie Landau Ph.D, Director of the documentary film
“Freedom through Commitment” and Couples Therapist
Communication. Emotions. Sex.
Relationships are living, evolving entities, and each of you is different.
That's why navigating the complexities of intimacy, whether it’s differing emotional needs, communication, parenting or sexual dynamics, deserves compassion, precision, and tailored guidance.
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Great intimacy isn’t about constant harmony; it’s about learning how to anchor into the power of your communication and sexual bond through it all. With the right support and commitment to growing together, even the most complex dynamics can lead to deeper intimacy.
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In our work together, you'll learn to communicate what you truly feel and desire, repair trust after difficult moments, balance your needs for autonomy and connection, and co-create deeper erotic connection, awakening entirely new possibilities for how you feel together in your daily lives.
“From the first meeting, we both felt that Danielle's energy was just right for us and that we had arrived at a safe place, one that allows us to open up about our fears, feel the full spectrum of our emotions and remove our masks.”
- Simon and Liron
Client Love
“When we first met Danielle we didn't really know what was waiting for us. We were looking to communicate more effectively after many fights that no matter what we did, kept coming back on repeat. We also wanted to deepen our sexual connection. We brought a lot of intention and desire to the process.
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From the first meeting, we both felt that Danielle's energy was just right for us and that we had arrived at a safe place, one that allows us to open up about our fears, feel the full spectrum of our emotions and remove our masks.
Danielle holds the space with a lot of tenderness, listening to both sides deeply with a smile that lightens the atmosphere. She has guided us through creative and diverse methods to reach new places within our relationship and our inner selves. After 3 months of weekly sessions we can see we have definitely grown a lot.
We now have tools that help us communicate when we disagree, judge each other less, identify our triggers and work with our cycles intelligently and from a completely different perspective. It is a privilege to be in a process with Danielle and we continue to meet her every week to deepen more and more in our relationship with ourselves and each other. We feel that after therapy sessions with Danielle we are able to really see each other's vulnerable spots and strengths, and this is a gift. We highly recommend her to any couple!”
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- Simon and Liron
